Siyamak has a somewhat  different perspective... a perspective that I thought that our regular readers  would enjoy as the last blog of this year.
                    
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My name is Siyamak  Khorrami and I want to share with you some life changing experiences, hoping it  might benefit you as much as it has helped me over the last few months. 
I was born in Iran just  after the revolution deposing the Shah.  As a young man, who was  interested more in business than politics, I decided that the future was  limited for me in Iran.  So in 1999, I had the opportunity to move from  Iran to Mexico while I awaited a student visa to study in the United States.
After two years of  waiting, the opportunity finally came as I was able to enroll at USC and after  four years of study, I graduated with a degree in international business.
After graduation and at  the relatively young age of 23, I was presented with an opportunity to go to  China where I headed a large department within a 300 person company.   While in China, I often found myself in meetings with high-level Chinese  government officials and key business leaders from Europe and America.  
In addition, to meeting  with key customers, I also had the opportunity to preside over dinners and  receptions for regulatory agencies such as the Federal Drug Administration  (FDA) as well as other members of the biotech community.
Before my 25th  birthday, I had lived in four countries, learned four languages fluently, and  successfully assimilated into the diverse business cultures of the Middle East,  Latin America, China and America.
After my experiences in  China, it became apparent to me that the America was indeed the land of  opportunity so I left China and landed in California which the intention of  starting up a new business venture within the high-tech industry.  
The timing couldn’t have  been worse.  The year was 2009, and the United States was embroiled in the  worst economic conditions since the Great Depression.  In addition, most  of my direct experiences came from the chemical and biotech industries.   The new venture was in the field of computers and telecommunications.
                But despite all of the  hurdles before us, now five years later, we have now become a regional leader  in our field and are looking to expand onto a national platform within the next  few years.
From the perspective of a  person looking at me from the outside, it appeared as though I have achieved a  great deal of success especially for someone as young as myself.   I  was a successful entrepreneur, had extensively traveled the world, spoke  several languages, and had a rolodex of high-level friends encompassing many  different industries.  
However, from inside I  was dying a quick death.  Success has a way of enslaving a person with the  fear that everything that has been already achieved could be lost as quickly as  it came.  
My work days became  endless and my nights sleepless as I worked harder and harder to juggle more  and more balls.  I regularly worked through the nights and weekends trying  my best to overcome the fear of failure while moving my company though a  minefield of competitive forces.
When I was in China, I  was a high-ranking officer within the company. The people who directly  reported to me were at my beckon call and did whatever I ordered them to do at  any given time. My concern was not for their welfare but rather whether  or not the job was being done. My subordinates didn’t necessarily like me  and I didn’t really care.  
The environment was very  toxic on several levels. 
I love the people of  China, but there is inherently little or no trust between management and labor,  within different departments, and even within departments. 
Loyalties of most people  within the company were tested often and due to incumbent politics, it was hard  to find a trusting team of people to work with.  I found it increasingly  hard to trust members of my own team and often found them working against the  best interests of the team.
Dealing with government  officials was another great challenge to overcome. 
Every day, I met with  people who appeared to be a helpful friend when in reality; they were actually  working against you.  It seemed that everyone only cared about working in  their own interest and honesty was non-existent.
  
When I started my company, I made it my mission to create a different type of culture. I wanted to build a team who worked together to achieve common goals. I wanted a company that was transparent and transformative.
When I started my company, I made it my mission to create a different type of culture. I wanted to build a team who worked together to achieve common goals. I wanted a company that was transparent and transformative.
Unfortunately, I also  wanted to quickly find success for me and my new company.  
My business goals soon  became incongruent and my relationships with my employees, friends and family  began to suffer in my quest  for success.  
From the outside  everything looked good but on the inside I felt empty. 
In a quest to change my  path, I thought about a book that a college friend had given to me some 10  years ago.  The book is called Zhuan Falun and introduces  the reader to a spiritual practice called Falum Gong. 
For years, the book  remained on my bookshelf unread.  My friend had told me a little about the  basic principles of the book but I didn’t see any need to incorporate those  principles into my own life.  At the time, my interests were based solely  on material success, not any spiritual awakenings.
But after achieving a  certain level of material success, I felt empty, alone, and a general feeling  of unhappiness.
One day, I remembered  this book and sat down to finally read it. 
Inside the book, I found  some profound principles that touched my heart and made me rethink of many of  my past behaviors. 
It was as if I have been  searching for this my whole life and now have found it. Soon I began ingraining  these principles into my daily life and business practices. 
The book mentions that  the universe is built on three main characteristics:
- Truthfulness
- Compassion
- Tolerance
The followers of Falum  Gong believe that we need to always try to incorporate these three basic tenets  into our daily lives and in doing so, we begin to live our lives by helping and  understanding others.
These principles are on a  spectrum and that every day we need to reflect on our thoughts and our actions  and continue to improve them.
The way that I have found  to incorporate these principles is to continually try to look through the eyes  of the people I encounter throughout my life. 
No longer am I concerned  with what is best for me but rather I am now solely concerned with what is best  for others knowing that if I am able to help others, my own rewards will come  back to me in the end.
Before applying these  principles, I was under the guise that in everything there was a winner and a  loser...and I always wanted to be that winner. 
Since my introduction to  Falum Gong, I now know that there can be multiple winners in every  situation...that life is more of a win-win than a winner-take-all.
Instead of always  thinking about winning and losing, I have been focused more on creating win-win  relationships and opportunities in everything I do and with all the people I  meet along the way.
I have replaced  selfishness, fear and competitiveness with truthfulness, compassion, tolerance  and in doing so; I have reintroduced a sense of happiness back into my life.
I still have kept the  same drive for my career and our company but now I pay great attention to  others as well. I have focused on building an environment that not only will  lead to financial success for our team and our investors, but also will help  our team members have happy and healthy lifestyle. 
As a result, I have been  so relaxed over the last few months. Our company environment has changed  significantly. I can feel that the team members care about the success of our  organization.  
The sleepless nights,  anxiety, and fear are all  gone.  Finally  I have been   feeling relaxed and happy inside. My friends and family members can see the  results as well.
I am so glad that I came  across this ancient spiritual practice and I wanted to share my experience with  you today. 
Somehow we get lost in  winning and losing while we focus on our own success but there is another way to  achieve success without sacrificing our personal fulfillment. 
Thank you for letting me  tell my story and may the future bring you much success and great joy.
Siyamak  
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